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Church Life: Coming to Jesus the Cornerstone: Being Built Together as Living Stones

Series: Calvary Boise 1 Peter: Hope and Holiness in a Hostile World Built on the Cornerstone: Identity and Mission in Christ Living Stones: Church, Worship, and Witness Come to Jesus: Ongoing Faith for Everyday Pressure Gospel Identity: Chosen, Royal, Holy, His Possession Teacher: Pastor Kirk

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Introduction

Are you merely attending church, or are you actively coming to Jesus and letting Him build you into something holy and useful? The central truth of 1 Peter 2:4–10 is that Jesus Christ is the living Cornerstone, and as we continually come to Him by faith, God builds us together into His spiritual house, giving us a new identity and a new purpose in a hostile world. Peter wrote to scattered believers across the Roman Empire (Asia Minor, modern-day Turkey). They were marginalized and pressured by the surrounding culture. Yet Peter doesn’t give them permission to drift, coast, or adopt a victim mentality. He calls them to grow (1 Pet. 2:1–3) and then lifts their eyes to a bigger vision: what God is building in and through them.

Main Points

Are you merely attending church, or are you actively coming to Jesus and letting Him build you into something holy and useful? The central truth of 1 Peter 2:4–10 is that Jesus Christ is the living Cornerstone, and as we continually come to Him by faith, God builds us together into His spiritual house, giving us a new identity and a new purpose in a hostile world.

Peter wrote to scattered believers across the Roman Empire (Asia Minor, modern-day Turkey). They were marginalized and pressured by the surrounding culture. Yet Peter doesn’t give them permission to drift, coast, or adopt a victim mentality. He calls them to grow (1 Pet. 2:1–3) and then lifts their eyes to a bigger vision: what God is building in and through them.

Jesus The Living Stone

Peter begins where we must always begin: with Jesus Himself. He calls Christ “a living stone” (1 Pet. 2:4). That sounds like a contradiction, stones are cold and lifeless, but Peter is gathering up what he’s already been teaching: we have a living hope (1 Pet. 1:3), we’ve been born again through the living and abiding word of God (1 Pet. 1:23), and now we come to a living Savior.

This is foundational discipleship: Jesus is not an idea, not a moral teacher we admire from a distance, not a religious symbol. He is alive, crucified and risen, historically real, presently reigning. That’s why Christians gather, sing, pray, and confess hope with “joy inexpressible and full of glory” (1 Pet. 1:8). And it’s why I urge you, if you are skeptical, to honestly examine the resurrection. Everything hangs on whether Christ truly lives.

And I want you to feel the contrast Peter implies: the world is full of “gods” that cannot answer, cannot speak, cannot save (cf. Ps. 115). But Jesus hears. Jesus acts. Jesus gives life. Apart from Him there is no life.

Jesus The Cornerstone Of Everything

Peter also says Jesus is the chosen and precious Cornerstone (1 Pet. 2:6). In ancient building, the cornerstone was the perfectly cut, carefully placed foundation stone. Every other stone had to align with it, horizontally and vertically. If that stone was off, everything else would be off.

So hear me: Jesus is not one part of your life; He is the measure of your entire life. The church doesn’t exist for me, for you, or for any personality. Jesus Christ is the point. Our beliefs, our priorities, our ethics, our hopes, everything must be lined up with Him.

Peter may even be echoing his memory of standing with Jesus at the temple, impressed by the grandeur, only to hear Jesus say the whole structure would come down (Mark 13:1–2). The message is clear: don’t be dazzled by what looks impressive in the world. God is building something more glorious than stone architecture, He is building a people.

Two Responses And Two Destinies

Once Jesus is set before us as living Stone and Cornerstone, Peter shows the unavoidable fork in the road:

  • Coming to Him (1 Pet. 2:4)
  • Rejecting Him (1 Pet. 2:7–8)

For believers, Peter says, “Whoever believes in him will not be put to shame” (1 Pet. 2:6). For unbelievers, Jesus becomes “a stone of stumbling and a rock of offense” (1 Pet. 2:8). This was foretold in Scripture (Isaiah and the Psalms are being quoted/alluded to), and it plays out in every generation.

Jesus Himself described this soberly: falling on the Stone breaks you (in repentance), but it leads to mercy and rebuilding; the Stone falling on you is crushing judgment (cf. Matt. 21:44). The gospel confronts us: you cannot remain neutral about Jesus forever.

And I want you to notice something: the “offense” isn’t merely that Jesus is demanding, it’s also that He seems, to worldly pride, too small and too foolish: a man from Nazareth, in a backwater of the empire, two thousand years ago, yet He claims to be the center of everything. That is exactly why people reject Him. But that rejection doesn’t make Him less true; it only reveals the heart.

Come To Him Continually

Peter’s phrase matters: “as you come to him” (1 Pet. 2:4). He’s talking to people who are already born again, and still he emphasizes ongoing coming. Discipleship is not a one-time visit to Jesus; it is a lifelong returning.

So I want to press this gently but clearly: what is your first response when trouble hits? When you’re weary, angry, anxious, tempted, or confused, do you come to Christ, or do you default to self-reliance?

Jesus invites you: “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28). Proverbs teaches the same posture: “Do not lean on your own understanding… acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths” (Prov. 3:5–6).

You may need practical reminders to “pray first,” to bring the moment to Jesus before you react. The point isn’t the method; the point is the habit of faith: Christ is alive, and His life meets you in real time. He answers prayer. He strengthens His people. He gives rest for the soul.

Your New Identity As God’s House

Now Peter lifts our eyes to what God is forming: “You yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house” (1 Pet. 2:5). Don’t miss the comfort and the challenge here:

  • Comfort: God is building. You are not an abandoned stone in a field.
  • Challenge: You are being built together. Lone-stone Christianity is not Peter’s vision.

This directly connects to the earlier call to put away malice, deceit, slander, hypocrisy (1 Pet. 2:1). Those sins don’t just “hurt feelings”, they tear down the house God is building. If we’ve tasted that the Lord is good (1 Pet. 2:3), we don’t excuse immaturity; we grow up.

And this building is not merely “community.” It is worship: we are “a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ” (1 Pet. 2:5). In other words, our lives become a temple-work of praise, obedience, repentance, prayer, service, offered through Christ, not through our own merit.

Proclaim His Excellencies In The World

Peter gives four covenant identity statements, stunning words that echo God’s Old Testament language for His people:

  • “a chosen race”
  • “a royal priesthood”
  • “a holy nation”
  • “a people for his own possession” (1 Pet. 2:9)

Why does God give this identity? “That you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light” (1 Pet. 2:9).

This is where discipleship becomes public. We do not exist to blend in. We do not retreat into shame or mimic the culture to avoid offense. We love people with different worldviews, but we don’t surrender the exclusive claim of Christ: “There is salvation in no one else” (Acts 4:10–12). Jesus is the Cornerstone whether a society honors Him or not.

And when you feel small, remember your story: “Once you were not a people, but now you are God’s people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy” (1 Pet. 2:10). Mercy makes us humble. Identity makes us steady. Purpose makes us bold.

Conclusion

Peter speaks to believers whose foundations were being shaken by pressure and marginalization. His answer is not self-pity and not self-protection. His answer is Jesus: the living Stone, the Cornerstone. As you continually come to Him, His life meets you, and God fits you, like a living stone, into His spiritual house.

So I’m asking you to take one concrete step: identify what you’re tempted to build your life on besides Christ (approval, comfort, control, success, politics, resentment), and bring it to Jesus. Come to Him again. Align with the Cornerstone. And let your life, your relationships, and your witness proclaim His excellencies.

Father, thank You for Your Word. Thank You that Jesus Christ is the living Stone, chosen and precious, and that whoever believes in Him will not be put to shame. Teach me to come to Jesus continually, not only once, but day by day and moment by moment. Forgive me for the sins that tear down Your house, malice, deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander, and grow me into maturity.

Lord, build us together as a spiritual house. Make us a holy and royal priesthood who offers spiritual sacrifices acceptable to You through Jesus. Remind us that we are Your people, that we have received mercy, and that You have called us out of darkness into Your marvelous light. Help us proclaim the excellencies of Christ with truth, courage, and love. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Conclusion

Peter speaks to believers whose foundations were being shaken by pressure and marginalization. His answer is not self-pity and not self-protection. His answer is Jesus: the living Stone, the Cornerstone. As you continually come to Him, His life meets you, and God fits you, like a living stone, into His spiritual house.

So I’m asking you to take one concrete step: identify what you’re tempted to build your life on besides Christ (approval, comfort, control, success, politics, resentment), and bring it to Jesus. Come to Him again. Align with the Cornerstone. And let your life, your relationships, and your witness proclaim His excellencies.

Closing Prayer

Father, thank You for Your Word. Thank You that Jesus Christ is the living Stone, chosen and precious, and that whoever believes in Him will not be put to shame. Teach me to come to Jesus continually, not only once, but day by day and moment by moment. Forgive me for the sins that tear down Your house, malice, deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander, and grow me into maturity.

Lord, build us together as a spiritual house. Make us a holy and royal priesthood who offers spiritual sacrifices acceptable to You through Jesus. Remind us that we are Your people, that we have received mercy, and that You have called us out of darkness into Your marvelous light. Help us proclaim the excellencies of Christ with truth, courage, and love. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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