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Reflecting Christ's Kindness: Engaging the World with Gentleness and Good Works

Series: Calvary Boise Living Out Our Faith The Power of Gentleness Engaging with Non-Believers Reflections on Titus Everyday Faithfulness Teacher: John Whittaker

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Introduction

This morning, we are diving into Titus chapter 3, specifically verses 1-7. The Apostle Paul has given Titus the responsibility to remind the church about the importance of being a well-ordered community that reflects the values of God. The opening illustrates a familiar situation where one is encouraged to examine themselves, much like looking in a mirror. This metaphor serves as a gateway into our understanding of how we are called to act in relation to those outside the church, particularly focusing on our demeanor and conduct toward non-believers. Here, Paul informs us that being part of the church is not merely about attending services; it's about our everyday lives and how we interact with the world around us.

Main Points

In Titus 3 1 Paul Starts

In Titus 3:1, Paul starts by instructing the believers to be subject to rulers and authorities. This call to submission may seem antiquated in today’s world, yet it remains profoundly relevant.

  • Being part of the body of Christ requires us to arrange ourselves accordingly under those in authority, government officials, bosses, teachers, and even neighbors.
  • This obedience demonstrates not only respect for societal structures but also our commitment to live out kingdom values in a context that often appears secular or even hostile to t.
  • Furthermore, the call to submit should not be perceived as a weakness but rather as a strength that reflects our trust in God’s sovereignty.
  • Remember, obeying earthly authority does not mean compromising our faith; it means showcasing how that faith translates into our public life.

Simply Put Our Attitudes And Actions

Simply put, our attitudes and actions toward authority can be a powerful testament to the transformational work God is doing within us. Continuing in Titus 3:1, Paul emphasizes being ready for every good work, an exhortation that transcends mere compliance.

  • This readiness suggests an active preparation to engage with others positively.
  • It compels us to think creatively about how we can serve those within our community, especially those who do not know Christ.
  • Practically, this could manifest in various forms: volunteering our time, offering assistance to our neighbors, or simply being present for someone in need.
  • When we embody this ethos of helpfulness and generosity, we not only uplift those around us but also create an atmosphere that is conducive for sharing the gospel.

Our Actions Will Speak Volumes Effectively

Our actions will speak volumes, effectively softening hearts toward the God we serve. In verses 2-3, Paul conveys the necessity of gentleness in our interactions with everyone, including those who may be difficult or unkind. It is tempting to engage in conflict or become combative, particularly when we encounter differing opinions or hostility. However, with Christ as our example, we are called to exhibit gentleness instead. This means demonstrating patience, kindness, and a willingness to listen, rather than react defensively. Such behavior can be challenging, especially in a culture that often glorifies strong opinions and harsh rhetoric.

Yet Gentleness Can Break Down Barriers

Yet, gentleness can break down barriers and form connections that pave the way for meaningful conversations about faith. As we embody Christ’s gentleness, we live out the gospel in tangible ways that resonate deeply with those around us. In verses 4-7, the narrative turns to how we were once lost, enslaved to various desires and behaviors. This reflection serves as a reminder of God’s kindness and mercy extended to us through Jesus Christ. We often forget that our transformations are not of our own making, but are gifts from a loving God who took pity on us. This moment calls us to remember our past, which fosters empathy towards those who are still lost.

When We Interact With Non-Believers We

When we interact with non-believers, we ought to reflect the same kindness God offered us. Instead of judgment, we can extend grace, sharing the hope of redemption and transformation that we ourselves have experienced. This relational dynamic serves both to honor God and to invite others into a loving relationship with Him. Our kindness can be a profound reflection of God's love. Finally, the text invites us to engage in self-assessment regarding our interactions with non-believers. The key question posed is whether our behaviors display the kindness and goodness of God that we've experienced in our salvation.

As We Evaluate Our Conduct In

As we evaluate our conduct in various settings, like the workplace, neighborhood, or public spaces, we must ask ourselves if we reflect Christ in our actions and words. It is crucial that our relationships do not merely uphold our reputations but also honor God. In actions as simple as how we treat a server at dinner or how we respond to conflict with co-workers, we have opportunities to communicate the faith we profess. Our conduct can challenge or confirm the stereotypes about Christianity that others hold. Therefore, it is imperative that we aim to reflect the graciousness of God consistently, becoming ambassadors of His message through our everyday lives.

Conclusion

In conclusion, Titus 3:1-7 presents a compelling vision of what it means to live as the people of God. As we navigate our public lives, we are challenged to reflect on our relationships with those who do not know Christ. By submitting to authority, engaging in good works, exhibiting gentleness, and embodying the kindness of God, we can become influential witnesses in our communities. Let us take this opportunity to look into God's Word as our mirror and assess our lives, seeking to reflect His love and grace in all our interactions. If we do so, we not only honor God but also fulfill our calling to be the light of the world.

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