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Leading with Love: Wisdom in Christian Leadership

Series: Calvary Boise Wisdom in Leadership Discipleship Training Series Leading with Love and Compassion Biblical Principles of Leadership Transformative Leadership in Christ Embracing God's Guidance in Leadership Teacher: Pastor Tucker

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Introduction

Over the past three weeks, we've explored the theme of wisdom and what it means to embody God's character in our lives. This search has led us to discuss wisdom in various contexts, life, culture, and transition. As we conclude our four-week series, our focus shifts to the vital topic of wisdom in leadership. This subject is particularly relevant to me in my role as lead pastor, but it extends beyond church leadership to include all forms of influence that believers hold in their families, workplaces, and communities. We are all called to lead in some capacity, especially in guiding others closer to God, and today's message will unpack how to approach this calling with wisdom.

Main Points

The Leadership Lesson I Want To

The leadership lesson I want to share highlights the significance of our hearts as leaders. In John 21, Jesus poses a critical question to Simon Peter: "Do you love me?" This question is asked three times, emphasizing that the foundation of effective leadership is rooted in our love for Christ.

  • Our leadership must flow from this love; it cannot thrive on mere logic or authority.
  • Peter's experience illustrates this point, as his eventual reinstatement as a leader hinged on his affirmation of love for Jesus, suggesting that our influence must emerge from a p.
  • Examining biblical figures like Joseph, we see how love shapes leadership.
  • Despite being wronged by his brothers, Joseph chose to forgive and provide for them during a time of famine.

This Compassionate Response Sets A Standard

This compassionate response sets a standard for our leadership as well. If love is absent, we risk leading others away from God, as seen in the tragic cycles of Israel's history when they turned to idols.

  • Thus, our primary focus should remain on loving God, for a leader driven by love will lead others toward Him, while a leader enamored with worldly concerns may lead the flock into.
  • It's essential to recognize that many of us may feel unqualified for leadership roles, reminiscent of Peter's initial denials of Christ.
  • However, it's vital to understand that God often uses those who seem the least likely to accomplish His purposes.
  • The acknowledgment that we are "leaders in training" is liberating; it informs us that failure does not disqualify us from service.

Instead Trials Can Serve As Transformative

Instead, trials can serve as transformative experiences, cultivating perseverance and character, as articulated in James 1:2-4. By embracing our journey as unfinished leaders, we can foster humility and sensitivity to the needs of those we lead. Leadership extends beyond titles; it encompasses any situation where we have influence. I encourage each of you, regardless of your formal role, to recognize your capacity to lead others toward Christ. This includes nurturing relationships within our families, workplaces, and communities. Whether ministering to a neighbor or guiding your children, your love and commitment can profoundly impact those around you.

Remember A Loving Approach Fuels Successful

Remember, a loving approach fuels successful leadership, inviting others to experience God's glory and grace. In his dialogue with Peter, Jesus points out that the path of discipleship often involves letting go of our plans. As we mature in our roles as leaders, it's crucial to allow God to guide our hearts and our decisions. In John 21:18, we're reminded that following Christ can lead us to places we might not choose ourselves. Leadership should not be about controlling every aspect; rather, it is about surrendering to divine will while inviting others to follow along this path of faith. Finally, I want to reiterate that our challenges and trials, as uncomfortable as they may be, are opportunities for growth.

As Leaders We Need To Embrace

As leaders, we need to embrace these experiences as moments to seek wisdom. Romans 8:28 assures us that God works all things for the good of those who love Him. Hence, our encounters with difficulty can shape us into leaders who better understand, empathize with, and support those we lead, as we have experienced our own journeys of pain and redemption. The promise that accompanies wise leadership is paramount. We derive strength and direction from trusting in God, as established in Proverbs 3:5-6. By entrusting our leadership to Him, we align ourselves with His plans, find peace, and serve authentically.

This Trust Leads To Fruitful Relationships

This trust leads to fruitful relationships within our families and communities and impacts our spiritual well-being as part of the body of Christ.

Conclusion

In summary, being a wise leader, whether at home, at work, or within the church, requires love, compassion, and a willingness to learn and grow through experiences. Like Peter, we must affirm our love for Christ and allow that love to drive our leadership. As we face trials, let us keep our hearts open to God's lessons and trust in His guidance. By following Jesus and leading with His love and wisdom, we can profoundly impact those around us and fulfill our calling as influencers for His kingdom.

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